Hi, family and friends! We made it, we made it! The last two days were grueling--a 2 hour train ride to Hong Kong turned into a 6 hour mini-bus ride--LONG story. Then, after the long 14.5 hour flight from HK to Detroit, we had a 7 hour layover that became a 9 hour layover after a late flight. Then, on that flight from Detroit to Bham, we had to put all our things throughout the plane and couldn't get to forumula, clothing, or diapers when both kids had major stink fests in their pants and Brenna got hungry...it was NOT pretty. But, we made it! My sweet mother in law was holding welcome signs and balloons for us and we cried and cried upon arriving. Micah slept from 1-6 am and Brenna 'til 9:30am. They're both napping now--which is nice!
We took Brenna to her pediatrician today...she's already gained 2.5 pounds since July 6th!!!! She really had a come apart at the doctor's office--she has so much fear from her hospital stay I'm sure and I think maybe she just needed to cry some after all the change and stress she's been through. It was so good to be able to hold her and love on her as she came apart. She's a very brave, special little girl. The doctors will be testing her for all sorts of things, but we feel that most likely she'd been getting less than half of what she needs calorically and has a parasite. I cannot even begin to explain how it feels to know your daughter has been starving. So surreal. She's beginning to blossom more and more--the last few days she's starting to try and hold her bottle and touch food. We are quite sure that she was never allowed to get her hands anywhere near food--perhaps even hit or yelled at when she tried--but now she's learning so much. She's learned to wave the last two days and understands several words--her favorites are congee, eat, more, Mommy, and Daddy.
Thank you all so much for the amazingly clean house and the awesome food and sweet cards, pictures, and decorations!!! Brenna LOVES the picture of us as a family--she touches it and squeals--so neat! Brenna loves the congee her Chinese aunties provided--thank you!!!
Love, love to all!!!
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I'm so glad to see this post! I know you are completely wiped out. Praying for Brenna to gain strength and trust every day. You have such joy ahead as you watch her start to blossom. I'm praying for your momma's heart too...for perspective and peace. I know how much I hurt when I realized some of what J and been through and it wasn't anything like what you've experienced. When I took the heartache to God and told him how I wished I had been their earlier, he reminded me that he was already there surrounding my baby girl. Love to your sweet family!
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ReplyDeleteCrying tears of joy as I read your post. SO glad to know you are home safely. Thinking of you daily...
ReplyDeleteSo glad you are home and nurturing that sweet baby girl!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad to hear you are home with your baby girl! God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteKathy Glenn
So wonderful to read your post. Constant thoughts and prayers of love to you all.
ReplyDeleteSo glad to finally see this post from home! That trip home is exhausting with one baby, let alone two! Hoping now that you are home you can recover from the trip and everyone will get settled into your new routine!
ReplyDeleteWhat an exhausting trip home! After that, you can handle anything!! We are delighted that you are all home.
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